You're not a perfectionist. You're a person with a broken triage system.

There's a fix - and it comes in a free toolkit.

You don't actually want everything to be perfect. You want to know which things deserve that level of care — and to give yourself full permission to let the rest be good enough, or gloriously approximate.

That's not lowering your standards. That's finally using them correctly.

Perfect, Precise, or Poetic License is a free framework and companion worksheet that gives you a three-part triage tool for every task, project, and decision you've been paralyzed by — so you can stop applying surgical standards to situations that were always calling for sweatpants.

  • The PPPL framework — the three categories, what they mean, and how to tell them apart

  • The triage worksheet — so you can work through a real stuck project right now, today

  • The one question you'll start asking yourself about everything

I'm a restoration coach with close to 30 years of experience helping women (and a few awesome dudes) reclaim what they've been told they can't have, recover what they think they've lost, and restore what was always theirs to begin with.

I built this framework within the Soul Shepherdess philosophy because I lived it. For years I applied the wrong standard to almost everything and wondered why it felt like straining molasses through a pair of panty hose just to finish anything.

I live in the country with my farmer, a small herd of registered Percheron draft horses, a peanut butter loving Border Collie, and altogether too many cats. If there isn't a cat on your lap right now, what are we even doing? Come on in.

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